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男士必看:5句话绝对不能对女朋友说

来源:学习之家 作者:xuexi110 人气: 发布时间:2016-06-07
摘要:1. "I Don't Like Your Friends." “我不喜欢你朋友。” You don't like her friends. It happens. It actually happens often. In fact, she doesn't really like your friends, but she probably won't come right out and say it. Unless the women she s

男士必看:5句话绝对不能对女朋友说

1. "I Don't Like Your Friends."
“我不喜欢你朋友。”

You don't like her friends. It happens. It actually happens often. In fact, she doesn't really like your friends, but she probably won't come right out and say it. Unless the women she spends time with are horrible influences on her life, or do things to jeopardize your relationship, there is really nothing you can do about her circle of friends.
你不喜欢她的朋友很正常,也时有发生。其实她也不太喜欢你朋友 ,但她可能不会站出来说这样的话。除非与她共处的朋友给她的生活带来很不好的影响,或者做了什么危害你们关系的事,否则你还真的不能拿她的朋友们怎么办。

Instead Say: "We should meet some new people."
相反你可以说:“我们应该交些新朋友。”

Every couple has other couples they regularly hang out with. A new couple might be the solution to your issue with her friends: She makes new friends and spends less time with the old crew.
每对情侣都经常和其他情侣一起出去玩,找一对新的情侣朋友也许就能解决你和她朋友之间的问题了:她有了新朋友,和老朋友在一起的时间自然就少了。

2. "Are You Putting On Weight?"
“你是胖了吗?”

This one barely needs explanation. If she's put on weight, chances are she's already well aware of that herself. The last thing she needs is for her boyfriend to point it out.
这条几乎不需要解释,如果她体重增加了,那很有可能她自己已经知道了,她最不希望这件事从男朋友嘴里说出来。

Instead Say: "Let's do something active today. I'm feeling out of shape."
相反你可以说:“今天咱们锻炼锻炼吧,我感觉最近身材走样了。”

If you do believe she's putting on weight, then your ultimate goal is for her to eat better and exercise. Instead of letting her know that you've noticed she's gone up a size or two (and trust us, she knows already), shift the focus to committing to being healthier together. The focus will then be on sharing healthy activities together, rather than on her weight gain.
如果你真觉着她胖了,那你的最终目的就是要让她吃得好、多锻炼。不要让她知道你注意到她的衣服大了一码或两码(相信我们,她已经知道了),你要把注意力转移到你们共同追求健康的问题上。要让她注意到你们一起减肥,而不是关注她体重的增加。

3. "You Look Awful In That Outfit."
“你今天打扮得不好看。”

Men make jokes or just openly complain about the amount of time a woman spends getting ready. Looking good takes time and women spend a good portion of that time in preparation -- from picking out clothes and shoes to the color of her hair and nails. Even the best of preparation doesn't ensure she'll be happy with the result, so saying she looks bad in an outfit shows zero consideration.
男人会这样开玩笑或者只是公开地在抱怨女人打扮的时间太长了。打扮漂亮需要时间,女人要花费大量时间准备——从挑选衣服鞋子到头发和指甲的颜色。甚至最精致的装扮都不能保证最后她会满意,所以,说她打扮得不漂亮就是你欠考虑。

Instead Say: "I just don't like that outfit."
相反你可以说:“我不喜欢那种装扮。”

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